Should asking him if he will change his status on what—in the scheme of things—amounts to the new Friendster really be that intimate of a request?
I think you broach it like you were asking him for a bite of his sandwich, super casually and like it's not big deal. "Hey, I noticed you're still single on your Facebook, what's up with that? Your second concern, that he won't want to, is a little beyond my ken.
Before taking the next step of bringing your boyfriend home, you should think about how timely it would be within the context of your relationship.
Dating experts and HC readers have weighed in below, and we’ve condensed this nerve-wracking issue into four questions you have to consider before bringing your boyfriend home!The second concern is that, even when I figure out a way to ask him about changing our statuses, that he won't want to.Here's my thing about Facebook: no matter what Mark Zuckerberg or their CFO or pop culture might tell us, it's a game. Because it's social, for many it appears to be more than this, but it really doesn't need to be any more than you make it.Ask him if you could tell your best friend about the relationship, and see how he reacts.On the other hand, I want to encourage you to not be too quick to define your relationship with your secret boyfriend.