Why did our generation start this talking stage as a prime source of dating? Confusion, stress, anger, love, torture and overthinking all come wrapped up into one big present, waiting for us to open it up before we even become official with someone.
It’s like we put our brains and hearts through a roller coaster before we even consider labeling an official relationship.
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Navigating this transition, however, is far from obvious.
” That’s the beauty of dating- you never know how serious it’s going to turn out.
Trying to “make it serious” is a universal thing, something both guys and girls do when they find a person they like and, although I am all for being honest with your feelings I don’t think that should give you or him the excuse to start pushing it.
Sure, some people date, but most (in my experience) do it for the sex.
Going from dating to relationship is also a process that requires your attention, effort, energy, interaction and, sometimes, even the ability to be your own shrink, best friend and a fortune teller all in the same time.
You can’t grab a guy for his collar, shake him a few times and say, “Listen, dude, do you mean business or am I just wasting my time here?
In fact, if you’re not nervous about that, then you probably don’t have the right chemistry to begin with.
So if your hands are clammy and your stomach is in knots, take that as a good sign.