Julian is a divorced woman who fell in love with a man 17 years her junior.
This relationship, she believes, brought passion back to her lonely world.
When the allure of dating someone new wears off, it’s important to accept your partner for the person that you met – even if they are 20 years your senior.
An older man usually has an established work, social and home life. Older men are often looking for something consistent. You won’t catch yourself with lingering thoughts of other lovers or competition.
But, when you’re younger, every year, even every half year, changes come, meaning different concerns, different priorities and overall different mentalities.
You want someone whose knowledge and experience will complement—even supplement—your own.
While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.
Because of this ..sometimes this results in intergenerational relationships that have both their benefits and concerns.
Gay Life After40wants to break down the pros and cons of intergenerational relationships where a prominent age gap exists between the two guys.
If you’re in your 50’s and he’s in his 70’s, no big deal. You’ve both basically done all the personal growth you’re going to do.
You’ve both gotten your wilder years out of the way, and you’ve both lived full lives with satisfying careers and plenty of travel (hopefully).