The alpha males had the best food and the best shelter.
Therefore, females were attracted to the alpha males for survival reasons. The alpha males never displayed desperation because they were never desperate.
The neon sign that is flashing “hot mess” is not necessarily referring to the woman always.
The men who acted desperately were the weaker males with less to offer. In this instance, the consolidated lessons were Desperation=valueless.
When a woman feels a man is desperate, she thinks “less valuable.” Being Evasive about Defining Your Relationship It is idiotic, annoying and a neon sign flashing “hot mess” when a woman asks a man about their relationship.
Some women will go many months or even a couple of years with getting a date and after a while, they begin to wish they could just meet a great guy who could have sex with them, love them and fill up the gap that has been missing for so long.
Yet, despite a woman’s loneliness, she still wants to feel attracted to the guy she meets.