Depends on where you go or the area where there is a lot of youngsters like night clubs and so on. And it is not always black and white but black and indian as well.I also noticed that people who race mix sometimes do it cause they got hurt by someone in their own race.Of course, not everything can be breached ahead of time.Situations do change after marriage and through time. ” I wonder if white men get asked the same question: do they find their choice in white women limiting? If I happen to find a white guy who shares the same values and there’s chemistry, sure! If I’m on a dating site where they ask you and I have to choose, I don’t pick white.” “Have you ever tried to date a white guy? “Actually, my longest relationship – two years – was with a white guy. But as a teenager – all I knew was that I was rebelling against my parents’ traditional ideas. “Well, yes, it started out as a political decision but it has manifested into preference. I just don’t find white men that attractive anymore.” “Do you find that limiting? I would later learn how living in a society where positive or attractive images of brown men and women were marginalized or non-existent would affect who I thought was attractive.
As far as I was concerned, I would only marry a white guy – if I was to get married at all.150 years ago they were living in mud huts animal like,now they speak our language properly and people view them different. At the same time south africas coloured (mixed race) population almost the same as the white population. Bitch Deborah Patta with her strong anti-Afrikaner character was married to a black man. Now with that point, there are still a few whites who go, and i have seen a few couples of white guys with Indian girls (only 3 actually).I have seen white girls with blacks but twice in my life, both times in Hatfield, Pretoria (student territory). Yet these white guys seem to be rather degenerate breeds.Through the last fifteen years of being involved in the Indian community and interacting with many non-Indian, Western,and white women who struggle with relationships and commitments with their Indian boyfriends, I share the top three mistakes that most of these women make while trying to overcome the challenges of acceptance from their Indian boyfriend or to-be's family.Many Americans hold an ideal that regardless of social standing, culture, economic status, educational background and religion, love will overcome all these problems and make everything ‘ok.’ This can be true if and only if the couple have extensive discussions before marriage about expectations after marriage and into the long term, such as both partners’ career aspirations, family planning, traditions, values, choosing the place to live among many other variables.