It can be easier to blame the survivor than face the fact that someone within the family has abused you.
Tell students that you are going to be the net and you will need to stand in the middle of the circle to exchange the papers. As students complete their questions they should hold the paper in the air and then you swap the papers over as if their messages are being sent.ASK THE EXPERT: QI have been married 10 years and we have four children aged 9, 7, 6 and 4.Recently, I discovered that my husband has been using adult chat rooms online and seems to have been communicating in sexually explicit ways with other people.Explain that the net has gone a little bit crazy and they can’t send messages to specific people. They then reply to the one they’ve just received and so it goes on until each student has a page full of ‘chat’.If you have a big group ask a student or two to help you be the net in the middle. Then give the papers back to the student who wrote the initial question and they can see how the chat developed.