In most cases the man NEVER gives the woman a formal invitation to be exclusive.
Which leaves her questioning after each sexual encounter "Are we TOGETHER?
Last weekend we gathered our chichares (junk) together and headed to Cerano to see what we could sell for cash.
Things really didn’t get interesting until after mass, around 12 pm. My son and I were most interested in what makes a muchacho or muchacha (young fellow or lady) attractive and the subsequent “hooking up” stage. They circled in groups anywhere from 2 to 6 in a group. Then there were the vaqueros (cowboys) with their checked shirts, jeans, boots and belt buckles.With shaking knees and sweating hands he circled the plaza and was delighted to see her smile – a smile that he said still warmed his heart more than 50 years later.Walking I like knowing the origin of terms – in Spanish as well as English.We sold enough for us to get some Cerano specialty carnitas de res (fried cow parts) and ice cream.My husband, as always, was in charge of any and all business, therefore my son and I had some free time on our hands. Every town has its “circuit” where the young girls and boys circle around and observe, talk to or hook up with members of the opposite sex.