Sometimes what you want is something a bit more low key, a more casual relationship instead of something long-term.Maybe you’ve just gotten out of a relationship and the last thing you want is to jump on particular horse again.What do you suppose men sacrifice when they sleep around a lot? Yes, men can jeopardise their future potential to have a high value mate through perpetual promiscuity (See the book social Psychology and Human Sexuality, 2001). Of course, the ACT of sex carries with it very little sacrifice for a man. But the kind of man who is being promiscuous is not generally having sex with 10 women who are rated 10s every week.
Whatever the reason, many people are more interested in a casual relationship than they are in something committed or long-term.
While everyone has insecurities or flaws they wish they could change, you have to feel okay about yourself from the start for it to be a positive,...
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Also, it’s going to be difficult to keep lies going.
Be gentle It’s bad enough that you’re telling the guy you don’t want to see him anymore, potentially breaking his heart. If your reason for cutting him off is not that he carries himself like a complete jerk, and he really seems to be a nice guy, try to be gentle in your approach.