And there's a lot of books out there, I suppose, that say to a wife that you're going to lose this guy if you don't stay really pretty. He died to make us attractive, according to Ephesians.
Well, she should try to stay as attractive as she can. You can't make his faithfulness the outcome of her looks. We are called as men to be faithful the way Jesus is faithful to his bride. I think when Jesus looks at us, if he doesn't look at us in himself, he's not going to be excited about this marriage feast at the end of the age. So women should ask, "What kind of spirit should I cultivate for my man?
However, the view that you need to date as many people as possible to find the “right one” can be extreme.
This form of dating can then turn into a game of playing the lottery with people.
This person is funny, smart, likes the same things as you and is the biggest sweetheart ever. Read what these girls had to say about looks in a relationship, and then let us know what you think.
Do you let your lack of physical attraction ruin the relationship… We saw this topic in the g message boards, and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it since.
Before I found Boundless, I had already started a "buddy" relationship with one of my best guy friends.
He moved across the country several months ago, but we still talk through email almost every day.
I couldn’t date somebody who I wasn’t physically attracted to.He wants to call and write letters, but I've been holding off because I'm not sure if I want to encourage deepening our communication at this point.This is one of those occasions where the buddy relationship didn't involve a romantically interested girl and an oblivious guy; instead, I think he has liked me all along, but I was completely oblivious.The word "biblical" in this question is perhaps intended to take me to a text. " as well as, "How should I eat and dress and exercise for my man?And of course the text that comes to mind is, when it speaks to beauty, 1 Peter 3:3: "Don't let your beauty be the outward beauty of the wearing of gold, and the braiding of hair, and the wearing of clothes." It doesn't say "fine clothes." It's just "clothes," so you know it's not an absolute, as though not wearing clothes is good thing. " And the man should do the same: "What kind of inner spirit makes her flourish?