It can be a form of courtship that consists of social activities done by the couple.
The protocols and practices of dating, and the terms used to describe it, vary considerably from country to country and over time.
" Their first meeting was at a fraternity party and they exchanged numbers. "That night at Lighthouse we danced the whole night while a band played and it wasn't the normal bump and grind," Smith reminisced. We shared a lot of laughs." Amazingly, this male made a recovery. "We were going off campus; it actually sounded like a real date instead of 'you want to come and hang out in my suite?
We have lost the corny, old school, caring ways to how one actually dates now. Why are men afraid of commitment in today’s dating scene?
And its not females to blame, males are the culprits in this crime. Could it be because they don’t want to be known as soft to other males?
Doing nice things such as going on dates, holding open a door, holding their hand in public, going out of your way to do something cute for them, having actually study sessions or even showing an ounce of affection towards a female while in college is seen as soft, weak, whipped or lesser of a man. One where we rather hit it and quit it, and not even take into account of what that female is feeling, what she wants or is expecting.
Friends with benefits are just a cover up for males.